Parental Alienation

Family Law Secrets Revealed.
Helping Fathers Get Equal Rights In Custody And Divorce Issues.

Alarming Cafcass Report

If you have any concerns regarding the way in which Cafcass has handled your family case. Then it is imperative that you read this report. It illustrates a vital point that I have highlighted over 2 years ago, prior to this report being published, when they became evolved in my family. Cafcass is not only incompetent, but dangerous because they impose their over handed power of the law to ruin genuine caring parents and children’s lives.

Children need Parents.

I have spoken to many adults that grew up without a Dad; the general consensus is that they do hold a grudge. I am just a Dad so what do I know?, In a world of highly trained Social Workers and Cafcass Officers.

In regards to my personal circumstances, the Cafcass officer reviewing my case, had condemned me on the allegation of the other parent, without any proven evidence or investigations, to substantiate the conviction.

Cafcass decisions to alienate me from my daughter after an initial interviewing with me had a devastating impact on the family as a whole. Cafcass have been granted the power to condemn law abiding parents. Any parents who had faith in the law system, and is under the delusion that Cafcass would protect their rights, and the rights of their children are in for devastating disappointment.

Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion .

Parental Alienation

When a couple with children decides to separate, whether they are married or not, the effects of the separation on the children can be devastating. This is especially true if one parent fails to foster and encourage an ongoing relationship between the child and the other parent. One parent may be angry with the other parent for any number of reasons, and that parent may seek revenge using the couple’s children. For example, a mother may speak in a derogatory manner about the child’s father in the child’s presence. The mother may refuse to let the child visit the father and then tell the child that their father does not want to see him or her. Because of the mother’s actions the father and child become alienated from one another. The parent knows that by encouraging this parental alienation pain and suffering will be inflicted on their former partner. While this is a cruel perpetration on the parent, it is cruel to the child as well.

The child may not be old enough to understand what is going on in situations such as these. Sometimes children are simply too young to understand the origins and consequences of the conflict between the parents. Just because the child may be young does not mean that he or she will not be negatively impacted by parental alienation. If he or she does have an understanding of what is happening between the parents, the child may torn and conflicted in his or her emotions. Children love their parents, and this affection is an innate feeling. When parents are alienated from their children, this usually does not eradicate the love the child has for the alienated parent. It may, however, foster feelings of distrust or even hatred towards the parent responsible for the alienation between the child and their other parent.

Parental alienation is not an isolated incidence. There are many divorced parents that rarely if ever get to see their children. In some cases this is due to the parent’s failure to be a good parent and provide for their children. In other cases, one parent does not get to see their children because of the actions and behaviors of the other parent. Ideally, children need to grow up in a home with both of their parents. When this is not possible, the parents should be willing to put their differences aside and do what is best for the children involved. Intentional parental alienation is born out of selfishness and revenge. Children will be harmed by these types of actions. Regardless of how much the relationship between the parents has deteriorated, they should always work together to provide the best life for their children possible. The best life most always includes the involvement of both parents.

Parental Alienation: What Is It? How Can Parents Fight It? Most Complete Volume Of Information About Pas Ever Published. Child Custody Affiliate Site:

Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion

Children who lose a parent
Thursday, November 19th, 2009 at 8:32 pm Edit
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Kids that lose their Dads

In a research study commissioned by family lawyers at Mischcon de Reya, and carried out on 4000 parents and children has found that one in three children permanently loses touch with a parent after a divorce, and it is usually the father.

The research found that one in five parents said after separation their objective was to make the experience as unpleasant as possible for the other half. A fifth of the children said they felt used, lonely and isolated.

(PAS)?What is Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)?

WHAT DOES PAS LOOK LIKE?

~ The child denigrates the alienated parent with foul language and severe oppositional behavior.

~ The child offers weak, absurd, or frivolous reasons for his or her anger.

~ The child is sure of him or herself and doesn’t demonstrate ambivalence, i.e. love and hate for the alienated parent, only hate.

~ The child exhorts that he or she alone came up with ideas of denigration. The “independent- thinker” phenomenon is where the child asserts that no one told him to do this.

~ The child supports and feels a need to protect the alienating parent.

~ The child does not demonstrate guilt over cruelty towards the alienated parent.

~ The child uses borrowed scenarios, or vividly describes situations that he or she could not have experienced.

~ Animosity is spread to the friends and/or extended family of the alienated parent.

~ In severe cases of parent alienation, the child is utterly brain- washed against the alienated parent. The alienating parent can truthfully say that the child doesn’t want to spend any time with the other parent.

~ When told that the child MUST spend time with the other parent, the alienator typically responds, “There isn’t anything I can do about it. She/he just doesn’t want to be with you.”

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Parental Alienation

Family Law Secrets Revealed.
Helping Fathers Get Equal Rights In Custody And Divorce Issues.

Alarming Cafcass Report

If you have any concerns regarding the way in which Cafcass has handled your family case. Then it is imperative that you read this report. It illustrates a vital point that I have highlighted over 2 years ago, prior to this report being published, when they became evolved in my family. Cafcass is not only incompetent, but dangerous because they impose their over handed power of the law to ruin genuine caring parents and children’s lives.

Children need Parents.

I have spoken to many adults that grew up without a Dad; the general consensus is that they do hold a grudge. I am just a Dad so what do I know?, In a world of highly trained Social Workers and Cafcass Officers.

In regards to my personal circumstances, the Cafcass officer reviewing my case, had condemned me on the allegation of the other parent, without any proven evidence or investigations, to substantiate the conviction.

Cafcass decisions to alienate me from my daughter after an initial interviewing with me had a devastating impact on the family as a whole. Cafcass have been granted the power to condemn law abiding parents. Any parents who had faith in the law system, and is under the delusion that Cafcass would protect their rights, and the rights of their children are in for devastating disappointment.

Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion .

Parental Alienation

When a couple with children decides to separate, whether they are married or not, the effects of the separation on the children can be devastating. This is especially true if one parent fails to foster and encourage an ongoing relationship between the child and the other parent. One parent may be angry with the other parent for any number of reasons, and that parent may seek revenge using the couple’s children. For example, a mother may speak in a derogatory manner about the child’s father in the child’s presence. The mother may refuse to let the child visit the father and then tell the child that their father does not want to see him or her. Because of the mother’s actions the father and child become alienated from one another. The parent knows that by encouraging this parental alienation pain and suffering will be inflicted on their former partner. While this is a cruel perpetration on the parent, it is cruel to the child as well.

The child may not be old enough to understand what is going on in situations such as these. Sometimes children are simply too young to understand the origins and consequences of the conflict between the parents. Just because the child may be young does not mean that he or she will not be negatively impacted by parental alienation. If he or she does have an understanding of what is happening between the parents, the child may torn and conflicted in his or her emotions. Children love their parents, and this affection is an innate feeling. When parents are alienated from their children, this usually does not eradicate the love the child has for the alienated parent. It may, however, foster feelings of distrust or even hatred towards the parent responsible for the alienation between the child and their other parent.

Parental alienation is not an isolated incidence. There are many divorced parents that rarely if ever get to see their children. In some cases this is due to the parent’s failure to be a good parent and provide for their children. In other cases, one parent does not get to see their children because of the actions and behaviors of the other parent. Ideally, children need to grow up in a home with both of their parents. When this is not possible, the parents should be willing to put their differences aside and do what is best for the children involved. Intentional parental alienation is born out of selfishness and revenge. Children will be harmed by these types of actions. Regardless of how much the relationship between the parents has deteriorated, they should always work together to provide the best life for their children possible. The best life most always includes the involvement of both parents.

Parental Alienation: What Is It? How Can Parents Fight It? Most Complete Volume Of Information About Pas Ever Published. Child Custody Affiliate Site:

Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion

Children who lose a parent
Thursday, November 19th, 2009 at 8:32 pm Edit
Leave your comment

Kids that lose their Dads

In a research study commissioned by family lawyers at Mischcon de Reya, and carried out on 4000 parents and children has found that one in three children permanently loses touch with a parent after a divorce, and it is usually the father.

The research found that one in five parents said after separation their objective was to make the experience as unpleasant as possible for the other half. A fifth of the children said they felt used, lonely and isolated.

(PAS)?What is Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)?

WHAT DOES PAS LOOK LIKE?

~ The child denigrates the alienated parent with foul language and severe oppositional behavior.

~ The child offers weak, absurd, or frivolous reasons for his or her anger.

~ The child is sure of him or herself and doesn’t demonstrate ambivalence, i.e. love and hate for the alienated parent, only hate.

~ The child exhorts that he or she alone came up with ideas of denigration. The “independent- thinker” phenomenon is where the child asserts that no one told him to do this.

~ The child supports and feels a need to protect the alienating parent.

~ The child does not demonstrate guilt over cruelty towards the alienated parent.

~ The child uses borrowed scenarios, or vividly describes situations that he or she could not have experienced.

~ Animosity is spread to the friends and/or extended family of the alienated parent.

~ In severe cases of parent alienation, the child is utterly brain- washed against the alienated parent. The alienating parent can truthfully say that the child doesn’t want to spend any time with the other parent.

~ When told that the child MUST spend time with the other parent, the alienator typically responds, “There isn’t anything I can do about it. She/he just doesn’t want to be with you.”

Parental Alienation

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