Nanny In most households today, both parents work outside of the home. These jobs often require the parents to work long hours, which means that parents must arrange for some type of child care for their little ones. In some cases, the hours that the parents work do not allow them to utilize day care services. Therefore, these parents must find alternative means of child care. Nannies are an option that may be available to some families. Because nannies can be expensive, not every family can afford their services. Hiring a nanny to take care of the children while the parents work has advantages and disadvantages for both the parents and the children. Nannies help parents ensure that their child always has adult supervision. This is one of the biggest advantages of hiring a nanny. Parents can rest assured that no matter what their job may require of them, the care and supervision of their children will be covered. Parents can relax knowing that their children will receive the love, attention, and care they need. A nanny can often help fill the void for the parents. While there are advantages to using nanny services, there are also many disadvantages. Parents will want to seriously consider both the pros and cons of using a nanny to care for their children. One of the biggest disadvantages of using a nanny is that parents are essentially hiring someone to raise their children for them. A nanny is there to love the child, care for them, and make sure the child’s needs are met. These are the very things the parent should be providing for the child, not a nanny. The children may come to trust the nanny and see them as the authority figure in their lives. This creates confusion for the child and often strains the relationship between the child and parent. Parents may begin to find that their children do not respect their authority. They may not listen to the parent’s instructions, and they may act with extreme defiance towards their parents. These behaviours manifest because there is a lack of trust between the child and the parent. The nanny, not the parent, has been established as the child’s primary caregiver and disciplinarian. For this reason, the child will often exhibit behaviour problems toward the parent such as disrespect and rebellion. The nanny may not have to deal with these behaviours because the child understands their relationship with the nanny. However, they are often confused about their relationship with their parents. Surveillance or Spy Cameras have many purposes: - to prevent theft, - to watch employees, - to catch cheating spouses, - for covert operations, - or simply to monitor a nanny or caregiver when you’re not at home. In addition, if you have infants or young children at home, a camera that you can view on your cell phone will help you keep a vigilant eye on them while you’re away, any time, both night and day.

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A little while ago a parent said, “I hear a great deal about health education lately. I don’t understand where all this need for health education has originated. Isn’t it true that the average length of life has about doubled in the last 150 years? When I was a youngster on a farm in the middle west I had none of this health education. Why can’t we let our children grow up naturally instead of having to train them to do this and to do that? Why do the public schools nowadays have a health training program?” What is the answer to some of these questions? Yes, the span of life has more than doubled. In 1789 it was about 28 years. In 1921 it was 58 years. The process of lengthening life is going on even more rapidly today and the reason you hear more about health education is because sanitar ians are coming to recognize that sanitation of water and food supplies and the use of vaccines and antitoxins are not enough in themselves. The study of public health problems shows that the development of an intelligent and hygienic mode of living by the individual is extremely important, not only in reducing the death rate but Ow by increasing the happiness rate through the more vigorous, happy, and buoyant health to be obtained through healthful living. The nature of the life of man is changing. The world has doubled its population in the last 100 years. The majority of us now work in shops, offices or factories while all but our most immediate ancestors have always lived out of doors. The boy on the farm a generation or two ago had plenty of fruit, vegetables and milk. He exercised out of doors. He had some time by himself without the excitement of city life. After supper there was not much to do and rather poor light in which to read. It was easy to get to bed early. Today high pressure living reaches the child as well as the adult. Education in health demands that we shall train the child to adjust himself to the kind of environment in which he lives in such a way that vigorous health may be maintained. The school undertakes to go hand in hand with the home in this training of the child. Certainly you want the school to support you in the habit training you are undertaking at home. You are trying, to develop habits of cleanliness, good posture, clear thinking, mental health, and you do not want the school to destroy what you are trying to do for the child. The school can help you in these things. The parent today is also warranted in demanding, in addition to the properly functioning health department, a program in the public school through which it shall assist the home in the positive constructive health training of the child.

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Learning to be respectful and how to act with responsibility, are fundamental lessons for almost all children. Children are never too young to learn to say please and thank you, to ask before taking, pick up toys and tidy their room, or take care with the possessions of others. Why is a respectful attitude important? Respect is a way of honoring those in authority who have set up the system of how we live. Respect is the necessary building block for co-operation in a community. When children comply with rules with a positive attitude, they are being respectful. Parents and teachers need to be models of respectful attitudes to authority and demonstrate this to children. Is there a difference between showing respect and being obedient? Obedience is a compliance with rules, but it may not be with respect. Respectful co-operation with rules is about an appreciation of the rules and how they serve us to thrive and not just survive. This is a complicated concept which takes time for children to understand. Many teenagers and adults don’t understand respect! Some of these get the severe punishment of being in jail, where they may have to be obedient, but probably still have no respect. What is the difference between respect and responsibility? Respect is the attitude, responsibility is the doing word. When you are responsible you are doing the right thing. What skills help a child to be responsible? Children need to follow rules. They need to take care of their own things, learn to tidy up after themselves and report anything that is too difficult for them to an adult or older child. They need to know that it is not ok to take other people’s things or to intrude into their private space. At what stage of their development do most children begin to understand the concept of responsibility? Most children have an understanding of responsibility by school age. A child with no responsibility, grows fearful in most situations involving change, and excessively depends on adults. What are some tasks toddlers and pre-schoolers could be expected to take responsibility for? Let children take on small tasks that gradually increase in difficulty as they grow older. This may include helping prepare small meals, setting a table, or letting them choose their own clothing for the day; all of which builds confidence and assists in developing simple math skills (e.g. counting and sorting). Is it a good idea to offer pocket money when children take responsibility for their allotted chores? Young children do not have a built-in sense of self-reward. They need to be reinforced by external rewards such as praise or visual stickers. Pocket money is a good idea for school age children as it teaches them about the social economy – if you work you get paid! However, it should be managed like a fun game and not be about being stressed or greedy. Should I rescue my child when they haven’t behaved responsibly? If a parent is always on tap to rescue a child when they have not taken responsibility, the child will never learn to be independent or to plan for success. So if your child forgets his raincoat, let him get wet. What strategies can I use if my child chooses to ignore their responsibilities? Parents need to set clear boundaries. Children like boundaries, and maintaining a sense of order through routine gives them a sense of security. For example, when moving into a new house, parents who enforce the same rules – no playing on the street, picking up all toys in the play room – remind their children that the same things are expected of them regardless of where they are, which in turn provides children with a sense of security. If rules are not working, parents may need to consider using rewards and punisher. Rewards work best and should always be the first option! How can I best handle disrespect from my child? Firmly tell the child that their behavior is not what you expect. Tell them the behavior that you do want and give them a reason for it. For example, if a child grabs another’s toy and runs away with it, catch the child and say – “We don’t take other people’s things. You wouldn’t like it if someone took your toy. Give it back and say you are sorry and that you won’t do it again. Parents should respect the child in all aspects of his or her personality if they seek respect in return. For example, parents need to consider the child’s opinions and perspectives before setting discipline and behavioral standards. Parents should stay firm on their expectations, yet remind themselves that the child is a human being and deserves to be treated with fairness in order to develop a positive self-concept. Dr. Janet Hall – About the Author: Dr Janet Hall is a Clinical Psychologist, Hypnotist, Author and Professional Speaker. She is the author of eight books on family and relationship issues including “Sex-Wise Teens” and “Sex-life Solutions”. She founded the Richmond Hill Psychology Clinic. http://www.drjanethall.com.au Dr Jan featured regularly on the television program “Sex Life” as their female sex therapist/advisor. Her 19 mps in the Sensational Sex Series frankly and informatively discuss sexual issues ranging from sex therapy using hypnosis, to advice on creating and sharing sexual fantasies, and strategies for sparking up your sex-life. http://www.sex-therapy.com.au

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Learning to be respectful and how to act with responsibility, are fundamental lessons for almost all children. Children are never too young to learn to say please and thank you, to ask before taking, pick up toys and tidy their room, or take care with the possessions of others. Why is a respectful attitude important? Respect is a way of honoring those in authority who have set up the system of how we live. Respect is the necessary building block for co-operation in a community. When children comply with rules with a positive attitude, they are being respectful. Parents and teachers need to be models of respectful attitudes to authority and demonstrate this to children. Is there a difference between showing respect and being obedient? Obedience is a compliance with rules, but it may not be with respect. Respectful co-operation with rules is about an appreciation of the rules and how they serve us to thrive and not just survive. This is a complicated concept which takes time for children to understand. Many teenagers and adults don’t understand respect! Some of these get the severe punishment of being in jail, where they may have to be obedient, but probably still have no respect. What is the difference between respect and responsibility? Respect is the attitude, responsibility is the doing word. When you are responsible you are doing the right thing. What skills help a child to be responsible? Children need to follow rules. They need to take care of their own things, learn to tidy up after themselves and report anything that is too difficult for them to an adult or older child. They need to know that it is not ok to take other people’s things or to intrude into their private space. At what stage of their development do most children begin to understand the concept of responsibility? Most children have an understanding of responsibility by school age. A child with no responsibility, grows fearful in most situations involving change, and excessively depends on adults. What are some tasks toddlers and pre-schoolers could be expected to take responsibility for? Let children take on small tasks that gradually increase in difficulty as they grow older. This may include helping prepare small meals, setting a table, or letting them choose their own clothing for the day; all of which builds confidence and assists in developing simple math skills (e.g. counting and sorting). Is it a good idea to offer pocket money when children take responsibility for their allotted chores? Young children do not have a built-in sense of self-reward. They need to be reinforced by external rewards such as praise or visual stickers. Pocket money is a good idea for school age children as it teaches them about the social economy – if you work you get paid! However, it should be managed like a fun game and not be about being stressed or greedy. Should I rescue my child when they haven’t behaved responsibly? If a parent is always on tap to rescue a child when they have not taken responsibility, the child will never learn to be independent or to plan for success. So if your child forgets his raincoat, let him get wet. What strategies can I use if my child chooses to ignore their responsibilities? Parents need to set clear boundaries. Children like boundaries, and maintaining a sense of order through routine gives them a sense of security. For example, when moving into a new house, parents who enforce the same rules – no playing on the street, picking up all toys in the play room – remind their children that the same things are expected of them regardless of where they are, which in turn provides children with a sense of security. If rules are not working, parents may need to consider using rewards and punisher. Rewards work best and should always be the first option! How can I best handle disrespect from my child? Firmly tell the child that their behavior is not what you expect. Tell them the behavior that you do want and give them a reason for it. For example, if a child grabs another’s toy and runs away with it, catch the child and say – “We don’t take other people’s things. You wouldn’t like it if someone took your toy. Give it back and say you are sorry and that you won’t do it again. Parents should respect the child in all aspects of his or her personality if they seek respect in return. For example, parents need to consider the child’s opinions and perspectives before setting discipline and behavioral standards. Parents should stay firm on their expectations, yet remind themselves that the child is a human being and deserves to be treated with fairness in order to develop a positive self-concept. Dr. Janet Hall – About the Author: Dr Janet Hall is a Clinical Psychologist, Hypnotist, Author and Professional Speaker. She is the author of eight books on family and relationship issues including “Sex-Wise Teens” and “Sex-life Solutions”. She founded the Richmond Hill Psychology Clinic. http://www.drjanethall.com.au Dr Jan featured regularly on the television program “Sex Life” as their female sex therapist/advisor. Her 19 mps in the Sensational Sex Series frankly and informatively discuss sexual issues ranging from sex therapy using hypnosis, to advice on creating and sharing sexual fantasies, and strategies for sparking up your sex-life. http://www.sex-therapy.com.au

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It would be great if children came with instruction manuals, but unfortunately this is not the case. Even though new parents are not handed instruction manuals to take home with them to help them care for their new little one, many others have forged this path previously and can offer help. Thankfully, new parents can benefit from the experiences of those that have gone before them. More experienced parents can offer advice and guidance to those just starting out, and new parents can consider this sage advice as their own personal child instruction manual. While the instruction manual may not cover absolutely every topic that may need to be addressed, it will definitely give new parents a point of reference from which to begin. One of the most important and difficult aspects of parenting is discipline. Most parents, especially first time parents, naively believe the experience with their child will be all cuddles and kisses. While love and affection is certainly appropriate and necessary in the life of every child, there are times in which new parents will have to be heavy-handed. Rules and discipline should be implemented when children are very young. Waiting until a child is older to teach them discipline may prove to be an exercise in futility. It is essential that parents be prepared to correct and discipline their children when necessary. Children are never too young to hear the word “no.” Even if parents are successful at telling their children “no,” they often give in to their child’s repeated requests. Children may throw a temper tantrum, yell, or cry in an effort to get their way. Parents need to be firm and stand their ground. Giving in to a child’s temper tantrums will only perpetuate or encourage this socially unacceptable behavior. However, children that understand that “no” actually means “no” are probably less likely to throw a temper tantrum in the first place. When parents are firm in their decisions, their children will be more obedient. Parents have to stick together when it comes to decisions regarding their children. Children can sense when there is a division, and they will exploit this division to their advantage. Before bringing a new baby home, parents need to discuss rules of the home before they have the chance to be broken. By establishing a game plan in advance, parents can be on common ground when it comes to house rules and discipline. This will be beneficial for both the parents and the children because it will encourage cooperation and create a safe, healthy environment for the child. By following these simple instructions, parents can have a wonderful life with their children.

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Family Law Secrets Revealed. Helping Fathers Get Equal Rights In Custody And Divorce Issues. Alarming Cafcass Report If you have any concerns regarding the way in which Cafcass has handled your family case. Then it is imperative that you read this report. It illustrates a vital point that I have highlighted over 2 years ago, prior to this report being published, when they became evolved in my family. Cafcass is not only incompetent, but dangerous because they impose their over handed power of the law to ruin genuine caring parents and children’s lives. Children need Parents. I have spoken to many adults that grew up without a Dad; the general consensus is that they do hold a grudge. I am just a Dad so what do I know?, In a world of highly trained Social Workers and Cafcass Officers. In regards to my personal circumstances, the Cafcass officer reviewing my case, had condemned me on the allegation of the other parent, without any proven evidence or investigations, to substantiate the conviction. Cafcass decisions to alienate me from my daughter after an initial interviewing with me had a devastating impact on the family as a whole. Cafcass have been granted the power to condemn law abiding parents. Any parents who had faith in the law system, and is under the delusion that Cafcass would protect their rights, and the rights of their children are in for devastating disappointment. Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion . Parental Alienation When a couple with children decides to separate, whether they are married or not, the effects of the separation on the children can be devastating. This is especially true if one parent fails to foster and encourage an ongoing relationship between the child and the other parent. One parent may be angry with the other parent for any number of reasons, and that parent may seek revenge using the couple’s children. For example, a mother may speak in a derogatory manner about the child’s father in the child’s presence. The mother may refuse to let the child visit the father and then tell the child that their father does not want to see him or her. Because of the mother’s actions the father and child become alienated from one another. The parent knows that by encouraging this parental alienation pain and suffering will be inflicted on their former partner. While this is a cruel perpetration on the parent, it is cruel to the child as well. The child may not be old enough to understand what is going on in situations such as these. Sometimes children are simply too young to understand the origins and consequences of the conflict between the parents. Just because the child may be young does not mean that he or she will not be negatively impacted by parental alienation. If he or she does have an understanding of what is happening between the parents, the child may torn and conflicted in his or her emotions. Children love their parents, and this affection is an innate feeling. When parents are alienated from their children, this usually does not eradicate the love the child has for the alienated parent. It may, however, foster feelings of distrust or even hatred towards the parent responsible for the alienation between the child and their other parent. Parental alienation is not an isolated incidence. There are many divorced parents that rarely if ever get to see their children. In some cases this is due to the parent’s failure to be a good parent and provide for their children. In other cases, one parent does not get to see their children because of the actions and behaviors of the other parent. Ideally, children need to grow up in a home with both of their parents. When this is not possible, the parents should be willing to put their differences aside and do what is best for the children involved. Intentional parental alienation is born out of selfishness and revenge. Children will be harmed by these types of actions. Regardless of how much the relationship between the parents has deteriorated, they should always work together to provide the best life for their children possible. The best life most always includes the involvement of both parents. Parental Alienation: What Is It? How Can Parents Fight It? Most Complete Volume Of Information About Pas Ever Published. Child Custody Affiliate Site: Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion Children who lose a parent Thursday, November 19th, 2009 at 8:32 pm Edit Leave your comment Kids that lose their Dads In a research study commissioned by family lawyers at Mischcon de Reya, and carried out on 4000 parents and children has found that one in three children permanently loses touch with a parent after a divorce, and it is usually the father. The research found that one in five parents said after separation their objective was to make the experience as unpleasant as possible for the other half. A fifth of the children said they felt used, lonely and isolated. (PAS)?What is Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)? WHAT DOES PAS LOOK LIKE? ~ The child denigrates the alienated parent with foul language and severe oppositional behavior. ~ The child offers weak, absurd, or frivolous reasons for his or her anger. ~ The child is sure of him or herself and doesn’t demonstrate ambivalence, i.e. love and hate for the alienated parent, only hate. ~ The child exhorts that he or she alone came up with ideas of denigration. The “independent- thinker” phenomenon is where the child asserts that no one told him to do this. ~ The child supports and feels a need to protect the alienating parent. ~ The child does not demonstrate guilt over cruelty towards the alienated parent. ~ The child uses borrowed scenarios, or vividly describes situations that he or she could not have experienced. ~ Animosity is spread to the friends and/or extended family of the alienated parent. ~ In severe cases of parent alienation, the child is utterly brain- washed against the alienated parent. The alienating parent can truthfully say that the child doesn’t want to spend any time with the other parent. ~ When told that the child MUST spend time with the other parent, the alienator typically responds, “There isn’t anything I can do about it. She/he just doesn’t want to be with you.”

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Family Law Secrets Revealed. Helping Fathers Get Equal Rights In Custody And Divorce Issues. Alarming Cafcass Report If you have any concerns regarding the way in which Cafcass has handled your family case. Then it is imperative that you read this report. It illustrates a vital point that I have highlighted over 2 years ago, prior to this report being published, when they became evolved in my family.

Cafcass is not only incompetent, but dangerous because they impose their over handed power of the law to ruin genuine caring parents and children’s lives. Children need Parents. I have spoken to many adults that grew up without a Dad; the general consensus is that they do hold a grudge. I am just a Dad so what do I know?, In a world of highly trained Social Workers and Cafcass Officers.

In regards to my personal circumstances, the Cafcass officer reviewing my case, had condemned me on the allegation of the other parent, without any proven evidence or investigations, to substantiate the conviction. Cafcass decisions to alienate me from my daughter after an initial interviewing with me had a devastating impact on the family as a whole. Cafcass have been granted the power to condemn law abiding parents.

Any parents who had faith in the law system, and is under the delusion that Cafcass would protect their rights, and the rights of their children are in for devastating disappointment. Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion .

Parental Alienation When a couple with children decides to separate, whether they are married or not, the effects of the separation on the children can be devastating. This is especially true if one parent fails to foster and encourage an ongoing relationship between the child and the other parent. One parent may be angry with the other parent for any number of reasons, and that parent may seek revenge using the couple’s children.

For example, a mother may speak in a derogatory manner about the child’s father in the child’s presence. The mother may refuse to let the child visit the father and then tell the child that their father does not want to see him or her. Because of the mother’s actions the father and child become alienated from one another. The parent knows that by encouraging this parental alienation pain and suffering will be inflicted on their former partner. While this is a cruel perpetration on the parent, it is cruel to the child as well.

The child may not be old enough to understand what is going on in situations such as these. Sometimes children are simply too young to understand the origins and consequences of the conflict between the parents. Just because the child may be young does not mean that he or she will not be negatively impacted by parental alienation. If he or she does have an understanding of what is happening between the parents, the child may torn and conflicted in his or her emotions.

Children love their parents, and this affection is an innate feeling. When parents are alienated from their children, this usually does not eradicate the love the child has for the alienated parent. It may, however, foster feelings of distrust or even hatred towards the parent responsible for the alienation between the child and their other parent. Parental alienation is not an isolated incidence. There are many divorced parents that rarely if ever get to see their children. In some cases this is due to the parent’s failure to be a good parent and provide for their children.

 In other cases, one parent does not get to see their children because of the actions and behaviors of the other parent. Ideally, children need to grow up in a home with both of their parents. When this is not possible, the parents should be willing to put their differences aside and do what is best for the children involved. Intentional parental alienation is born out of selfishness and revenge. Children will be harmed by these types of actions. Regardless of how much the relationship between the parents has deteriorated, they should always work together to provide the best life for their children possible. The best life most always includes the involvement of both parents. Parental Alienation: What Is It? How Can Parents Fight It? Most Complete Volume Of Information About Pas Ever Published.

Child Custody Affiliate Site: Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion   Children who lose a parent Thursday, November 19th, 2009 at 8:32 pm Edit   Leave your comment Kids that lose their Dads In a research study commissioned by family lawyers at Mischcon de Reya, and carried out on 4000 parents and children has found that one in three children permanently loses touch with a parent after a divorce, and it is usually the father. The research found that one in five parents said after separation their objective was to make the experience as unpleasant as possible for the other half. A fifth of the children said they felt used, lonely and isolated. (PAS)?What is Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)?

WHAT DOES PAS LOOK LIKE? ~ The child denigrates the alienated parent with foul language and severe oppositional behavior. ~ The child offers weak, absurd, or frivolous reasons for his or her anger. ~ The child is sure of him or herself and doesn’t demonstrate ambivalence, i.e. love and hate for the alienated parent, only hate. ~ The child exhorts that he or she alone came up with ideas of denigration. The “independent- thinker” phenomenon is where the child asserts that no one told him to do this. ~ The child supports and feels a need to protect the alienating parent. ~ The child does not demonstrate guilt over cruelty towards the alienated parent. ~ The child uses borrowed scenarios, or vividly describes situations that he or she could not have experienced. ~ Animosity is spread to the friends and/or extended family of the alienated parent. ~ In severe cases of parent alienation, the child is utterly brain- washed against the alienated parent. The alienating parent can truthfully say that the child doesn’t want to spend any time with the other parent. ~ When told that the child MUST spend time with the other parent, the alternator typically responds, “There isn’t anything I can do about it. She/he just doesn’t want to be with you.”

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CAFCASS are Parental Alienation Experts Archives CAFCASS are Parental Alienation Experts Friday, June 18th Helping to Expose the truth to fight Injustice in Family Law Come join me on Facebook and help fight this Ugly Injustice that is not just in the UK but all around the world I have not seen my daughter for over 2 years and every day since then we read almost daily of horror storys from around the world, WHY! is this being allowed to happen. Well here are a few reasons why it is happening, on a huge scale. My X wife is so scared I will get to the bottom of her actions, that herself, and her friend from Warlingham school (A school teacher) cooked up together, 7  years after our divorce  to break my relationship with my daughter, will be found out. The lies and accusations, she visits this site almost every day. Croydon, United Kingdom Telewest Broadband (94.169.129.105) My X 2. Returning Visits: 104.  I know what pages she visits, how long she spends there, yes your guilty.    X2 means another computer, that she changed to. It started as My X 1. after the court case but changed to other PC. The damage you have done, I nor our daughter will ever forgive you. If you think you will turn her against me, or she will forget me, then you are so wrong. All you succeeded in doing was destroying a Childs childhood. John Collins of Croydon Cafcass, and Judge Barry Cole, are not fit for the purpose of their jobs. How would they like to face a police report, I now have this. This judge said, because I highlighted a word, in an email, that showed I was a violent man. He laughed at my suggestion that the report Mrs Crawford produced on Cow & Gate note paper was false. This was his fact finding answer. He looked no farther than the end of his nose. He also stated in court that the false Doctors report on Cow & Gate note paper was genuine, and could only have been produced by a physician. I know that not only is this paper false it is also written in an illegal way and no Doctor would have written this.    I often wonder what he may have highlighted, had his wife stopped him from seeing his only child, out of sheer bitterness. I tend to think he would have highlighted more than a word, under the circumstances I was under.   Family court hell The horrors of Cafcass the Children and Family Court Advisory Support Service. 1.The majority of Cafcass Officers are ex probation officers used to dealing with hardened/petty criminals. 2.1 in 7 Cafcass officers as NOT received any training. 3.Cafcass officers have NO formal qualifications. 4.Shockingly, Cafcass officers training consists of just one 2 half-day course – less than a Traffic Warden. There is NO official training budget whatsoever. 5.Cafcass has NO defined guidelines and in 2007 still NO proper complaints procedure. 6.Cafcass keep NO records and do not research into the outcomes of the cases they have been involved in (e.g. figures on children’s suicide and teenage pregnancy five years after CAFCASS involvement). This means they have NO way of knowing whether they are achieving the best outcomes for children and their parents. 7.To further compound problems, massive numbers of CWOs are leaving because of these problems. Cafcass faces a major recruitment crisis. 8.According to Dr Buchanan, ex-Head of the Family Division Research Team at Oxford University, Cafcass handles around 40,000 cases each year affecting an estimated 80 – 120,000 children per annum. 9.This equates to over a million children in the past decade alone. 10.According to Dame Elizabeth Butler-Sloss, once President of the Family Division, 40% of fathers lose contact with their children after 2 years. http://bit.ly/aKCBN5 A Cheng Wee Juliet Ferry – “Many lawyers and judges are also parents themselves. What puzzles me is : How are some lawyers or judges able to go to work, make some decisions, kill some parent-child relationships, and then return home to spend quality time with his own children without feeling a thing for those innocent lives he has just destroyed?… I wonder how does he sleep at night, I bet Saturn must be there singing a lullabye to him. And I bet Saturn is also ‘taking good care’ of his wife and children as well.”See more   It is over 2 years since I have seen my 10 year old daughter, all because of these incompetent people, who listened to a bitter woman’s accusation and totally disregarded every word I said. One day I will see my daughter, but at what cost and what damage, will have been done. My X wife broke a court order that gave us both 50% care of our then 4 year old daughter. This order was broken for over 2 years, but the court did not even consider that, they were more interested in believing my X’s lies that I was a violent man, accusations that only emerged 7 years after our divorce. Over that following 7 years my X tried her best to put a wedge between myself and our daughter, but she had no chance to break that bond between us. Then in April 2008 my X completely cut of my contact. “How she do this” She would do it with her vile mouth, and her temper, so it was me who would back down, and wait for a court to decide. Unknown to me at that time it would take over 2 years for a court to come to a decision. Two years of not being able to see our daughter all because of unfounded accusations   John Collins put in his final report, exactly what my X said, and totally disregarded anything I said. ‘Complaints From Children About Cafcass‘ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckkho1lccj8 CAFCASS HARM TO CHILDREN VIDEO: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckkho1lccj8 NOW CAFCASS HAS BEEN SUED: WWW.THELAWSUIT.ORG FOLLOW THE CASE AT WWW.OATH.TV CAFCASS IS AIDING FRAUD, KIDNAPPING, THEFT AND MURDER. THE COURT HEARINGS WERE RECORDED, AND NOW CAN BE PROVEN THE TRANSCRIPTS WERE TAMPERED WITH. CAFCASS HAVE THOUSANDS OF CHILDREN HARMED, FAMILIES DESTROYED, PARENTS SUFFERING. CAFCASS IS AN AGENCY THAT CHILDREN COULD CELEBRATE THE NON EXISTENCE OF CAFCASS. NOW CAFCASS GETS  SUED WITH EVIDENCE ON A CLICK TO ALL. Don’t you get thoroughly Pissed off coming every morning to a site to see if there is something new!! but there’s nothing there just this scan document, well it do take a little time, after all its quite involved. We have fraud, deceit, child abuse, perverting the coarse of justice, and a few more. So no worry its all going to come out. Here is a comment of many I have had over this last month. Hi Malcolm: Was nice to visit with you at S’pore airport early morning of the 16th. We have a lot in common. I appreciated your blog on parental alienation…I am a victim and the father…it happens. Likely I will never again see my children and if I ever did I have no idea where I could begin to undo all the damage that has been done over the years. I wish you well on your journey…keep going and never give up. Glen Parental Alienation:What Is It? How Can Parents Fight It? Most Complete Volume Of Information About Pas Ever . Child Custody Site: http://bit.ly/bL49vu This is a Doctor’s Report, was produced in a family court against me, and Judge Cole ASKED me, how I could possibly think this document, could possibly be fraudulent.   Times are really hard Please leave a your comment. The recession must have been harder than we thought. Another story its about time something was done. If a parent was found out to treat their children as Cafcas do, they would lose custody quicker than they could blink. but a Cafcas employee can do it, ruining lives of children and parents. For those who do not know or understand what PAS is about Sometimes called Parental Alienation (PA) -A recent study has found that where parents cannot divorce amicably which results in the child or children losing contact with a parent, and that is usually the father. It is a disorder that arises primarily in the context of child-custody disputes. Its primary manifestation is the child’s campaign of denigration against a parent, a campaign that has no justification. It results primarily from the programming (brainwashing) of a child by one of the parents, whose goal is the complete vilification of the other parent. Half of the parents involve in this study admitted that by taking this action against the other parent, it made matters worse for there children. What does PAS look like? http://bit.ly/bL49vu Unfair in love and war From the timesonline http://bit.ly/cX3qER October 2007 Banker’s ex-wife jailed for a month for breaching an injunction barring her from seeing her children. She had approached the eldest child in the street May 2008 Lord Justice Ward told a father there was nothing he could do to help him to re-establish contact with his teenage daughter who had been turned against him by her “vicious” mother. The “drip, drip, drip of venom” poured into the girl’s ears included unfounded accusations of sexual abuse, the judge said November 2009 High Court hears the case of a father who has been seeking contact with his children for eight years. Judges have supported his requests but his wife has failed to comply with the court order. So far she has not been penalised A solicitor, and a prominent, family court Judge, stated in a court of law, that these two documents are authentic Doctors report. Over the next few weeks I will be updating this post.  I hope you are all prepared for what is to come.  Documents Please leave your comments. Well the truth usually come’s out in the end, and the proverbial worm, normally turns around, I intend to name EVERY ONE involved, Cafcas officers, school teachers solicitors and even the judge. Ever known a judge to fall of his high horse. Every single day I receive an email with at least 3 complaints against Cafcass And the treatment and way in which I have had to endure this last two years it comes as no surprise, my question its Why has this been allowed to go on Here are today’s links. Lynda Mac » Expose Everyone & I Mean Every 1! Secrecy surrounding the Secret Family Courts « Staffordshire … CAFCASS AIDING KIDNAPPING AND FRAUD It makes some pretty grim reading, and I will add links to this list as I get them, I will do what ever I can to help children who are caught up in situations like this, by women who think they can flout the law by lying through there teeth, with out any concerns for the child. The effects of parental alienation can have a devastating impact on a child even much later in their lives.The Unheard Victims of Custody Battles The Unheard Victims of Custody Battles NEVER GIVE UP ! By Lynda Mac The last 5 years have been an eye opener to the corruption and money making scam that these courts waste in both time and taxpayers money . Just because they operate in secret it is now no secret the scale of corruption. Anyone that has ever been involved in a legal battle with a former spouse or partner in regard to child custody has first-hand knowledge of how nasty child custody proceedings can be. Wild accusations are thrown about with little thought of the future consequences of these accusations. At some point after the custody battle the parents are going to have to cooperate on some level because of visitation and child support issues. However, it seems as if no one takes this into consideration; hurt feelings and the need for revenge seem to rule. To make matters worse, it often seems that agencies such as Cafcass and court liaisons such as judges and solicitors choose a side and then dig in their heels for the battle. Where is the justice in this? The lone, small voice that goes unheard while the parents, their legal representatives, and government agencies duke it out is that of the child in the middle of the battle. What a sad, helpless predicament the parents, solicitors, and agencies such as Cafcass put these children in. These children are uprooted from their normal lives and thrust into unfamiliar surroundings – strangers asking them personal questions, evaluating their every word, poking at them and their feelings. All the while the child is screaming inside for someone to rescue them. Alas, no one comes to their rescue. Cafcass, solicitors, and one of the parents may feel that the child is being “rescued” but in many cases the child is suffering a terrible form of abuse. Agencies such as Cafcass, solicitors, and the courts do a great injustice to the children trapped in the midst of divorce when they choose sides. When the unbiased systems set in place to dole out justice become biased in their actions and opinions, the objectivity that is supposed to define these systems is wilfully discarded by those in positions of authority. Taking sides is childish and of no value to those involved in the custody battle. Every piece of evidence, every accusation, and every action taken by the parents in child custody proceedings should be viewed with impartiality. By failing to do so the agencies and individuals involved in child custody proceedings effect a great transgression against those most vulnerable in these proceedings: the children – the very ones they are tasked with protecting. When married couples determine to dissolve their marriage or partners decide to end their relationship, they should try to do so in a civil manner out of respect and love for their children. When outside agencies try to intervene and “help” in these situations, parents should not allow these agencies to further divide the family. Loving parents know what is best for their children, and they should provide protection and support for their children at any cost. Agencies such as Cafcass, solicitors, and the courts sometimes have their own agendas from which parents should protect their children. Divorced or separated parents should work together for the best interests of their children. Dad Pushes For Equal Parenting Rights Bill – Video – WSMV Nashville: (3/2/10) – A father supports a bill in the st… http://bit.ly/aSuFoM Legally Kidnapped: CAFCASS NOW IS THE TIME TO LISTEN Up Date : 18th January 2010 A Damming report on Cafcass has just been released and it makes me wonder as to why Cafcass are still operating, the report reads like this: Assessed lowest possible inadequacy including out of date management documentation failure: Insufficient dialogue with children and family members about the report and the recommendations: Case plans not shared with families, complaints not dealt with unreliable data records, expected timescales not met. Lack of due consideration of family breakdown lack of consideration of protracted proceedings involving Cafcass relating to health, education and household finances and negative impacts on children Inadequate consideration or training re ethnic/cultural diversity inadequate consideration of domestic violence Read more here Secret Family Courts in 2010. Cafcass looks after the interests of children, or so they claim, here is a part of my story. I was divorced in 2004, I had been accessed by a Cafcass officer and given a very good report, In 2005 My X wife appealed against the judges decision because she claimed she did not have any quality time with our daughter, so I was assessed by Cafcass  a second time again I was given a very good report. Then in 2008 my X stopped me from seeing our daughter (we had 50/50 care) she then takes liable action against me with a tirade of accusation, so here I am again being assessed by Cafcass for the 3rd time. The officer interviewed my X, then the following day he interview me, so guess what, he was bios against me, He had just interview a very bitter woman, his report rubbished me, one his statements “Mr Crawford is so defiant”. Like Mr Crawford is lying. Related videos What would he expect from me when I know my X very well, having been married to her for 14 years and I also new she was lying through her teeth just to spite me. Because of this I have been unable to see our daughter for 21 months, I did make a surprise visit to a safe house where I new she be on Boxing Day. And saw her for 20 minutes. Because of my X’s unfounded accusations and two 30 minutes court hearings all that has been discussed is, how I should have supervised meetings with my daughter, and how I should attend anger management classes. TWENTY ONE months later absolutely nothing has been done. It’s like I was found guilty two years before there had been a court case. (February 2010) In September 2009 I made a formal complaint to Cafcass, three times I have sent this letter, one month apart, plus a copy, (all sent registered post) sent to their head office. It is New Years Eve its my daughters 10^th birthday tomorrow and I have not had a reply from CAFCASS.

3rd Copy

CAFCASS 3rd Floor, Carolyn House 22-26 Dingwall Road Croydon Surrey CR0 9XF

27 September 2009 Dear Ruth Carter Re: Complaint       ………………………………….. ……………………………………. D.O.B (01/ 01/2000 ) I wish to lodge a complaint against the Cafcass officer for the way in which he have dealt with the case evolving my daughter (……………….), Mrs Crawford and myself.  Your officer worker after only one visit proceeded to make serious allegation against me, based on his own opinion. That prove to be damaging with no underpinning evidence.  None of the officer allegation was ever proven in court or otherwise. Further more an assumption was also noted from this worker stating his own personal opinion is based on any formal facts or permissive evidence, which has made it impossible for me to gain access to my daughter after his comments had been directly noted in writing. I would like to request that you investigate this assumed opinion of your worker and inform me of what legal professional consultation took placed before these accusations were make common in the form in the form of a legal writing document outlining the damaging accusations of my character. I have found this situation to be extremely disheartening as I now have no access to my daughter because of your worker damaging statement. I look forward to your reply at your earliest convenience in response to this pressing matter. Yours Sincerely Mr M. Crawford Family Law Secrets Revealed. Helping Fathers Get Equal Rights In Custody And Divorce Issues. Alarming Cafcass Report If you have any concerns regarding the way in which Cafcass has handled your family case. Then it is imperative that you read this report.  It illustrates a vital point that I have highlighted over 2 years ago, prior to this report being published, when they became evolved in my family.  Cafcass is not only incompetent, but dangerous because they impose their over handed power of the law to ruin genuine caring parents and children’s lives. Children need Parents. I have spoken to many adults that grew up without a Dad; the general consensus is that they do hold a grudge.   I am just a Dad so what do I know?, In a world of highly trained Social Workers and Cafcass Officers. In regards to my personal circumstances, the Cafcass officer reviewing my case, had condemned me on the allegation of the other parent, without any proven evidence or investigations, to substantiate the conviction. Cafcass decisions to alienate me from my daughter after an initial interviewing with me had a devastating impact on the family as a whole.    Cafcass have been granted the power to condemn law abiding parents.  Any parents who had faith in the law system, and is under the delusion that Cafcass would protect their rights, and the rights of their children are in for devastating disappointment. Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion . http://bit.ly/bYaeLS

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I have not seen my daughter for over 2 years and every day since then we read almost daily of horror stories from around the world, WHY! is this being allowed to happen.

 Well here are a few reasons why it is happening, on a huge scale.

My X wife is so scared I will get to the bottom of her actions, that herself, and her friend from Warlingham school near Croydon South London (A school teacher) cooked up a plan together, 7  years after our divorce  to break my relationship with my daughter, will be found out. The lies and accusations, she visits this site almost every day. Croydon, United Kingdom Telewest Broadband (94.169.129.105) My X 2. Returning Visits: 104.  I know what pages she visits, how long she spends there, yes your guilty.    X2 means another computer, that she changed her PC. It started as My X 1. after the court case but changed to other PC.

 The damage you have done, I nor our daughter will ever forgive you. If you think you will turn her against me, or she will forget me, then you are so wrong. All you succeeded in doing was destroying a Childs childhood.
 John Collins of Croydon Cafcass, and Judge Barry Cole, are not fit for the purpose of their jobs. How would they like to face a police report, I now have this. This judge said, because I highlighted a word, in an email, that showed I was a violent man. He laughed at my suggestion that the report Mrs Crawford produced on Cow & Gate note paper was false.

This was his fact finding answer. He looked no farther than the end of his nose. He also stated in court that the false Doctors report on Cow & Gate note paper was genuine, and could only have been produced by a qualified physician. I know that not only is this paper false it is also written in an illegal way and no Doctor would have written this.  

 I often wonder what he may have highlighted, had his wife stopped him from seeing his only child, out of sheer bitterness. I tend to think he would have highlighted more than a word, under the circumstances I was under.

  Family court hell The horrors of Cafcass the Children and Family Court Advisory Support Service.

1.The majority of Cafcass Officers are ex probation officers used to dealing with hardened/petty criminals.

2.1 in 7 Cafcass officers as NOT received any training.

3.Cafcass officers have NO formal qualifications.
4.Shockingly, Cafcass officers training consists of just one 2 half-day course – less than a Traffic Warden. There is NO official training budget whatsoever.

5.Cafcass has NO defined guidelines and in 2007 still NO proper complaints procedure.

6.Cafcass keep NO records and do not research into the outcomes of the cases they have been involved in (e.g. figures on children’s suicide and teenage pregnancy five years after CAFCASS involvement). This means they have NO way of knowing whether they are achieving the best outcomes for children and their parents.

7.To further compound problems, massive numbers of CWOs are leaving because of these problems. Cafcass faces a major recruitment crisis.

8.According to Dr Buchanan, ex-Head of the Family Division Research Team at Oxford University, Cafcass handles around 40,000 cases each year affecting an estimated 80 – 120,000 children per annum.


9.This equates to over a million children in the past decade alone. 10.According to Dame Elizabeth Butler-Sloss, once President of the Family Division, 40% of fathers lose contact with their children after 2 years. See more   http://bit.ly/aKCBN5 A Cheng Wee

Juliet Ferry – “Many lawyers and judges are also parents themselves. What puzzles me is : How are some lawyers or judges able to go to work, make some decisions, kill some parent-child relationships, and then return home to spend quality time with his own children without feeling a thing for those innocent lives he has just destroyed?… I wonder how does he sleep at night, I bet Saturn must be there singing a lullabye to him. And I bet Saturn is also ‘taking good care’ of his wife and children as well.”    
             
It is over 2 years since I have seen my 10 year old daughter, all because of these incompetent people, who listened to a bitter woman’s accusation and totally disregarded every word I said.

 One day I will see my daughter, but at what cost and what damage, will have been done.
My X wife broke a court order that gave us both 50% care of our then 4 year old daughter. This order was broken for over 2 years, but the court did not even consider that, they were more interested in believing my X’s lies that I was a violent man, {A TOTAL LIE } accusations that only emerged 4 years after our divorce. Over that following 4 years my X tried her best to put a wedge between myself and our daughter, but she had no chance to break that bond between us. Then in April 2008 my X completely cut of my contact.And used force to break our daughter away from me. “How she do this” She would do it with her vile mouth, and her temper, she had instructed her solicitors I WAS VIOLENT and they threatened me with court action if I tried to make contact, so it was me who would back down, and wait for a court to decide. Unknown to me at that time it would take over 2 years for a court to come to a decision. {3 30 minute, scam court hearing} Two years of not being able to see our daughter all because of unfounded accusations  

John Collins put in his final report, exactly what my X said, and totally disregarded anything I said. ‘Complaints From Children About Cafcass‘ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckkho1lccj8 CAFCASS HARM TO CHILDREN VIDEO: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckkho1lccj8 NOW CAFCASS HAS BEEN SUED: WWW.THELAWSUIT.ORG FOLLOW THE CASE AT WWW.OATH.TV CAFCASS IS AIDING FRAUD, KIDNAPPING, THEFT AND MURDER. THE COURT HEARINGS WERE RECORDED, AND NOW CAN BE PROVEN THE TRANSCRIPTS WERE TAMPERED WITH. CAFCASS HAVE THOUSANDS OF CHILDREN HARMED, FAMILIES DESTROYED, PARENTS SUFFERING. CAFCASS IS AN AGENCY THAT CHILDREN COULD CELEBRATE THE NON EXISTENCE OF CAFCASS. NOW CAFCASS GETS  SUED WITH EVIDENCE ON A CLICK TO ALL.

Don’t you get thoroughly Pissed off coming every morning to a site to see if there is something new!!  but there’s nothing there just this scan document, well it do take a little time, after all its quite involved. We have fraud, deceit, child abuse, perverting the coarse of justice, and a few more. So no worry its all going to come out. Here is a comment of many I have had over this last month.

Hi Malcolm: Was nice to visit with you at S’pore airport early morning of the 16th. We have a lot in common. I appreciated your blog on parental alienation…I am a victim and the father…it happens. Likely I will never again see my children and if I ever did I have no idea where I could begin to undo all the damage that has been done over the years. I wish you well on your journey…keep going and never give up. Glen Parental Alienation:What Is It? How Can Parents Fight It? Most Complete Volume Of Information About Pas Ever

A Judge said this was a legal document that could only have been issued by a Dr
. Child Custody Site: http://bit.ly/bL49vu

This is a Doctor’s Report, was produced in a family court against me, and Judge Cole ASKED me, how I could possibly think this document, could possibly be fraudulent.   Times are really hard Please leave a your comment. The recession must have been harder than we thought.DR’s are having to put sheets of note paper together to make a report???

 Another story it’s about time something was done. If a parent was found out to treat their children as Cafcas do, they would lose custody quicker than they could blink. but a Cafcas employee can do it, ruining lives of children and parents. For those who do not know or understand what PAS is about Sometimes called Parental Alienation (PA) -A recent study has found that where parents cannot divorce amicably which results in the child or children losing contact with a parent, and that is usually the father.

It is a disorder that arises primarily in the context of child-custody disputes. Its primary manifestation is the child’s campaign of denigration against a parent, a campaign that has no justification. It results primarily from the programming (brainwashing) of a child by one of the parents, whose goal is the complete vilification of the other parent. Half of the parents involve in this study admitted that by taking this action against the other parent, it made matters worse for there children.

What does PAS look like? http://bit.ly/bL49vu Unfair in love and war From the timesonline http://bit.ly/cX3qER October 2007 Banker’s ex-wife jailed for a month for breaching an injunction barring her from seeing her children. She had approached the eldest child in the street May 2008 Lord Justice Ward told a father there was nothing he could do to help him to re-establish contact with his teenage daughter who had been turned against him by her “vicious” mother.
The “drip, drip, drip of venom” poured into the girl’s ears included unfounded accusations of sexual abuse, the judge said November 2009 High Court hears the case of a father who has been seeking contact with his children for eight years. Judges have supported his requests but his wife has failed to comply with the court order.
So far she has not been penalised A solicitor, and a prominent, family court Judge, stated in a court of law, that these two documents are authentic Doctors report. Over the next few weeks I will be updating this post.
 I hope you are all prepared for what is to come.  Documents Please leave your comments. Well the truth usually come’s out in the end, and the proverbial worm, normally turns around,

I intend to name EVERY ONE involved, Cafcas officers, school teachers solicitors and even the judge. Every single day I receive an email with at least 3 complaints against Cafcass And the treatment and way in which I have had to endure this last two years it comes as no surprise, my question its Why has this been allowed to go on

Here are today’s links. Lynda Mac » Expose Everyone & I Mean Every 1! Secrecy surrounding the Secret Family Courts « Staffordshire … CAFCASS AIDING KIDNAPPING AND FRAUD It makes some pretty grim reading, and I will add links to this list as I get them, I will do what ever I can to help children who are caught up in situations like this, by women who think they can flout the law by lying through there teeth, with out any concerns for the child. The effects of parental alienation can have a devastating impact on a child even much later in their lives.

The Unheard Victims of Custody Battles The Unheard Victims of Custody Battles NEVER GIVE UP ! By Lynda Mac The last 5 years have been an eye opener to the corruption and money making scam that these courts waste in both time and taxpayers money . Just because they operate in secret it is now no secret the scale of corruption. Anyone that has ever been involved in a legal battle with a former spouse or partner in regard to child custody has first-hand knowledge of how nasty child custody proceedings can be.

Wild accusations are thrown about with little thought of the future consequences of these accusations. At some point after the custody battle the parents are going to have to cooperate on some level because of visitation and child support issues. However, it seems as if no one takes this into consideration; hurt feelings and the need for revenge seem to rule. To make matters worse, it often seems that agencies such as Cafcass and court liaisons such as judges and solicitors choose a side and then dig in their heels for the battle. Where is the justice in this?
The lone, small voice that goes unheard while the parents, their legal representatives, and government agencies duke it out is that of the child in the middle of the battle. What a sad, helpless predicament the parents, solicitors, and agencies such as Cafcass put these children in.

hese children are uprooted from their normal lives and thrust into unfamiliar surroundings – strangers asking them personal questions, evaluating their every word, poking at them and their feelings.

All the while the child is screaming inside for someone to rescue them. Alas, no one comes to their rescue. Cafcass, solicitors, and one of the parents may feel that the child is being “rescued” but in many cases the child is suffering a terrible form of abuse. Agencies such as Cafcass, solicitors, and the courts do a great injustice to the children trapped in the midst of divorce when they choose sides.

When the unbiased systems set in place to dole out justice become biased in their actions and opinions, the objectivity that is supposed to define these systems is wilfully discarded by those in positions of authority. Taking sides is childish and of no value to those involved in the custody battle.

 Every piece of evidence, every accusation, and every action taken by the parents in child custody proceedings should be viewed with impartiality. By failing to do so the agencies and individuals involved in child custody proceedings effect a great transgression against those most vulnerable in these proceedings: the children – the very ones they are tasked with protecting.

When married couples determine to dissolve their marriage or partners decide to end their relationship, they should try to do so in a civil manner out of respect and love for their children. When outside agencies try to intervene and “help” in these situations, parents should not allow these agencies to further divide the family.

Loving parents know what is best for their children, and they should provide protection and support for their children at any cost. Agencies such as Cafcass, solicitors, and the courts sometimes have their own agendas from which parents should protect their children. Divorced or separated parents should work together for the best interests of their children.

Dad Pushes For Equal Parenting Rights Bill – Video – WSMV Nashville: (3/2/10) – A father supports a bill in the st… http://bit.ly/aSuFoM Legally Kidnapped: CAFCASS NOW IS THE TIME TO LISTEN
Up Date : 18th January 2010 A Damming report on Cafcass has just been released and it makes me wonder as to why Cafcass are still operating, the report reads like this: Assessed lowest possible inadequacy including out of date management documentation failure: Insufficient dialogue with children and family members about the report and the recommendations:

Case plans not shared with families, complaints not dealt with unreliable data records, expected timescales not met. Lack of due consideration of family breakdown lack of consideration of protracted proceedings involving Cafcass relating to health, education and household finances and negative impacts on children Inadequate consideration or training re ethnic/cultural diversity inadequate consideration of domestic violence Read more here

Secret Family Courts in 2010. Cafcass looks after the interests of children, or so they claim, here is a part of my story. I was divorced in 2004, I had been accessed by a Cafcass officer and given a very good report, In 2005 My X wife appealed against the judges decision because she claimed she did not have any quality time with our daughter, so I was assessed by Cafcass  a second time again I was given a very good report.

Then in 2008 my X stopped me from seeing our daughter (we had 50/50 care) she then takes liable action against me with a tirade of accusation, so here I am again being assessed by Cafcass for the 3rd time. The officer interviewed my X, then the following day he interview me, so guess what, he was bios against me, He had just interview a very bitter woman, his report rubbished me, one his statements “Mr Crawford is so defiant”. Like Mr Crawford is lying.

Related videos What would he expect from me when I know my X very well, having been married to her for 14 years and I also new she was lying through her teeth just to spite me. Because of this I have been unable to see our daughter for 21 months, I did make a surprise visit to a safe house where I new she be on Boxing Day. And saw her for 20 minutes. Because of my X’s unfounded accusations and two 30 minutes court hearings all that has been discussed is, how I should have supervised meetings with my daughter, and how I should attend anger management classes.

TWENTY ONE months later absolutely nothing has been done. It’s like I was found guilty two years before there had been a court case. (February 2010) In September 2009 I made a formal complaint to Cafcass, three times I have sent this letter, one month apart, plus a copy, (all sent registered post) sent to their head office. It is New Years Eve its my daughters 10th birthday tomorrow and I have not had a reply from CAFCASS.
3rd Copy
CAFCASS 3rd Floor, Carolyn House 22-26 Dingwall Road Croydon Surrey CR0 9XF
27 September 2009 Dear Ruth Carter Re: Complaint       ………………………………….. ……………………………………. D.O.B (01/ 01/2000 ) I wish to lodge a complaint against the Cafcass officer for the way in which he have dealt with the case evolving my daughter (……………….), Mrs Crawford and myself.  Your officer worker after only one visit proceeded to make serious allegation against me, based on his own opinion. That prove to be damaging with no underpinning evidence. 

None of the officer allegation was ever proven in court or otherwise. Further more an assumption was also noted from this worker stating his own personal opinion is based on any formal facts or permissive evidence, which has made it impossible for me to gain access to my daughter after his comments had been directly noted in writing.

I would like to request that you investigate this assumed opinion of your worker and inform me of what legal professional consultation took placed before these accusations were make common in the form in the form of a legal writing document outlining the damaging accusations of my character. I have found this situation to be extremely disheartening as I now have no access to my daughter because of your worker damaging statement. I look forward to your reply at your earliest convenience in response to this pressing matter.

Yours Sincerely
Mr M. Crawford

Family Law Secrets Revealed. Helping Fathers Get Equal Rights In Custody And Divorce Issues. Alarming Cafcass Report If you have any concerns regarding the way in which Cafcass has handled your family case. Then it is imperative that you read this report.  It illustrates a vital point that I have highlighted over 2 years ago, prior to this report being published, when they became evolved in my family.  Cafcass is not only incompetent, but dangerous because they impose their over handed power of the law to ruin genuine caring parents and children’s lives.

Children need Parents. I have spoken to many adults that grew up without a Dad; the general consensus is that they do hold a grudge.   I am just a Dad so what do I know?, In a world of highly trained Social Workers and Cafcass Officers. In regards to my personal circumstances, the Cafcass officer reviewing my case, had condemned me on the allegation of the other parent, without any proven evidence or investigations, to substantiate the conviction. Cafcass decisions to alienate me from my daughter after an initial interviewing with me had a devastating impact on the family as a whole.    Cafcass have been granted the power to condemn law abiding parents.  Any parents who had faith in the law system, and is under the delusion that Cafcass would protect their rights, and the rights of their children are in for devastating disappointment. Read the report for yourself and form your own opinion . http://bit.ly/bYaeLS The damage you have done, I nor our daughter will ever forgive you. If you think you will turn her against me, or she will forget me, then you are so wrong. All you succeeded in doing was destroying a Childs childhood.
 John Collins of Croydon Cafcass, and Judge Barry Cole, are not fit for the purpose of their jobs. How would they like to face a police report, I now have this. This judge said, because I highlighted a word, in an email, that showed I was a violent man. He laughed at my suggestion that the report Mrs Crawford produced on Cow & Gate note paper was false.

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