It seems that children have run amok these days as badly behaved, poorly disciplined, and out-of-control children can be seen just about everywhere in society. It is difficult to enjoy the park, the cafe, or the movies without having to deal with children’s and young adult’s abhorrent speech and rebellious attitude. Schools have become increasingly dangerous as insubordinate and disrespectful children fill the classrooms. It was reported that in 2009 approximately 46,000 primary pupils were either suspended or expelled from school, and 4,000 of these children were less than 5 years of age. Many people would like to blame an immoral society for the lack of discipline and respect apparent in these children, but I will dare to say that it is not society’s job to raise these children. Parents cannot fault anyone for their child’s bad behaviour other than themselves.

Because of modern day parents’ failure to adequately and properly parent their children, children have taken it upon themselves to establish rules of right and wrong. It is not the responsibility of the schools, the babysitter, the nanny, or the government to instill values and morals in children. While all of these individuals and organizations can confirm these values and morals, it is the parents’ job to teach and discipline their children. As much as children fight against rules and established boundaries, they desperately need rules and boundaries as they provide children with a sense of security and set limitations. Without rules and boundaries, children will be scared, angry, and resentful – just as we see that many children are today.

Parents need to step-up and take responsibility for their children. Parents need to look at themselves and see where they have failed as parents. Parents need to be honest with them. If parents have put work, holiday, or anything else before the needs of their children, this lack of time and attention will be evident in their child’s behaviour and attitude. Disrespectful, arrogant, rebellious, angry, depressed, withdrawn, and uncontrollable children are the direct result of a parent’s failure to do their most basic job – parent their children.
A Parent’s Guide To Children’s Behaviour.
Do You Feel Frustrated, Concerned Or Stressed About Your Child’s Behaviour? A Parent’s Guide To Children’s Behaviour Will Not Only Help You To Make Immediate Improvements In Their Behaviour But Show You How To Make Those Improvements Permanent.

Why is it that supposedly fully trained Social Workers, dealing with children, and Parents, seem to be totally unaware, of Parental Alienation? Which has been fully recognized, for many years now? The damage these unqualified social workers are doing is immense, and their actions can have a devastating effect, many years later on, in the Childs life.
A very good article on this subject written by RICHARD A. GARDNER
Department of Child Psychiatry, College of Physicians and Surgeons, Columbia University, New York, New York, USA
Differentiating between PAS and bona fide abuse is becoming increasingly important as the PAS diagnosis becomes appreciated both by mental health professionals and courts of law. A list of relevant publications and citations can be found in the Internet (www.rgardner.com/refs). This list is continually being updated as more such articles and more courts of law are recognizing the syndrome. The purpose of this article has been to provide criteria for making this important differentiation. Read this full article
Why Parental Alienation is the Act of an Emotionally Abusive Bully
March 3, 2010 at 10:45 am ions, Domestic Violence, False Allegations of Domestic Violence, Family Court Reform, Non-custodial fathers, Parental Alienation Disorders, Parental Alienation Syndrome, Parental Kidnapping, Parental Relocation, Restraining Orders, parental alienation on March 3, 2010 at 10:45 am

Here is an article that Cafcass need to take serious notice off. Written by Dr Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD Check out this post http://bit.ly/dwzzhT

http://www.blog.deanramsden.com/the-hidden-damage-of-relational-aggression-parental-alienation-syndrom/

Dr. Gardner also writes, “Many of these children proudly state that their decision to reject their fathers is their own. They deny any contribution from their mothers. And, the mothers often support this vehemently. In fact, the mothers will often state that they want the child to visit with the father and recognize the importance of such involvement, yet such a mother’s every act indicates otherwise.”

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NEVER GIVE UP !
By Lynda Mac
The last 5 years have been an eye opener to the corruption and money making scam that these courts waste in both time and taxpayers money . Just because they operate in secret it is now no secret the scale of corruption.

Anyone that has ever been involved in a legal battle with a former spouse or partner in regard to child custody has first-hand knowledge of how nasty child custody proceedings can be. Wild accusations are thrown about with little thought of the future consequences of these accusations. At some point after the custody battle the parents are going to have to cooperate on some level because of visitation and child support issues. However, it seems as if no one takes this into consideration; hurt feelings and the need for revenge seem to rule. To make matters worse, it often seems that agencies such as Cafcass and court liaisons such as judges and solicitors choose a side and then dig in their heels for the battle. Where is the justice in this?

The lone, small voice that goes unheard while the parents, their legal representatives, and government agencies duke it out is that of the child in the middle of the battle. What a sad, helpless predicament the parents, solicitors, and agencies such as Cafcass put these children in. These children are uprooted from their normal lives and thrust into unfamiliar surroundings – strangers asking them personal questions, evaluating their every word, poking at them and their feelings. All the while the child is screaming inside for someone to rescue them. Alas, no one comes to their rescue. Cafcass, solicitors, and one of the parents may feel that the child is being “rescued” but in many cases the child is suffering a terrible form of abuse.

Agencies such as Cafcass, solicitors, and the courts do a great injustice to the children trapped in the midst of divorce when they choose sides. When the unbiased systems set in place to dole out justice become biased in their actions and opinions, the objectivity that is supposed to define these systems is wilfully discarded by those in positions of authority. Taking sides is childish and of no value to those involved in the custody battle. Every piece of evidence, every accusation, and every action taken by the parents in child custody proceedings should be viewed with impartiality. By failing to do so the agencies and individuals involved in child custody proceedings effect a great transgression against those most vulnerable in these proceedings: the children – the very ones they are tasked with protecting.

When married couples determine to dissolve their marriage or partners decide to end their relationship, they should try to do so in a civil manner out of respect and love for their children. When outside agencies try to intervene and “help” in these situations, parents should not allow these agencies to further divide the family. Loving parents know what is best for their children, and they should provide protection and support for their children at any cost. Agencies such as Cafcass, solicitors, and the courts sometimes have their own agendas from which parents should protect their children. Divorced or separated parents should work together for the best interests of their children.

Dad Pushes For Equal Parenting Rights Bill – Video – WSMV Nashville: (3/2/10) – A father supports a bill in the st… http://bit.ly/aSuFoM

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This is the attached document, which a UK Judge, and a solicitor said in Court was authentic.  The first page of this document and the second page where presented together in court as one document.

This document has been made up by placing 4 sheets of Cow & Gate note paper into a scanner, which was then scanned, then printed, then the text printed on to it.
A prominent Judge said, this was a professional document, which could only be written, by some one with medical experience, and had been properly typed up. Please leave a comment.

For those who do not know or understand what PAS is about
Sometimes called Parental Alienation (PA)—A recent study has found that where parents cannot divorce amicably which results in the child or children losing contact with a parent, and that is usually the father. It is a disorder that arises primarily in the context of child-custody disputes. Its primary manifestation is the child’s campaign of denigration against a parent, a campaign that has no justification. It results primarily from the programming (brainwashing) of a child by one of the parents, whose goal is the complete vilification of the other parent. Half of the parents involve in this study admitted that by taking this action against the other parent, it made matters worse for there children. What does PAS look like? http://bit.ly/bL49vu
Unfair in love and war From the timesonline http://bit.ly/cX3qER
October 2007 Banker’s ex-wife jailed for a month for breaching an injunction barring her from seeing her children. She had approached the eldest child in the street
May 2008 Lord Justice Ward told a father there was nothing he could do to help him to re-establish contact with his teenage daughter who had been turned against him by her “vicious” mother. The “drip, drip, drip of venom” poured into the girl’s ears included unfounded accusations of sexual abuse, the judge said
November 2009 High Court hears the case of a father who has been seeking contact with his children for eight years. Judges have supported his requests but his wife has failed to comply with the court order. So far she has not been penalised

A solicitor, and a prominent, family court Judge, stated in a court of law, that these two documents are authentic Doctors report. Over the next few weeks I will be updating this post.  I hope you are all prepared for what is to come.  Documents
Please leave your comments.

Well the truth usually come’s out in the end, and the proverbial worm, normally turns around, I intend to name EVERY ONE involved, Cafcas officers, school teachers solicitors and even the judge. Ever known a judge to fall of his high horse.

Every single day I receive an email with at least 3 complaints against Cafcass

And the treatment and way in which I have had to endure this last two years it comes as no surprise, my question its Why has this been allowed to go on

Here are today’s links.

Lynda Mac » Expose Everyone & I Mean Every 1!

Secrecy surrounding the Secret Family Courts « Staffordshire …

CAFCASS AIDING KIDNAPPING AND FRAUD
It makes some pretty grim reading, and I will add links to this list as I get them, I will do what ever I can to help children who are caught up in situations like this, by women who think they can flout the law by lying through there teeth, with out any concerns for the child. The effects of parental alienation can have a devastating impact on a child even much later in their lives.